Do you need gift ideas for a husband that doesn’t want anything?! Well, we are in the same boat, my friend, and not just at Valentine’s Day either. You should see my husband’s Christmas list, it is a true surprise to him what he receives each year. 😂
Today, I’m going to give you a list of gift ideas for a husband that doesn’t want anything for Valentine’s Day!
Hopefully you will find at least a couple of these ideas useful (Hopefully more!). I like to make note of areas of enjoyment in my husband’s life and find gifts that will accommodate those loves. Most of these ideas are extremely adaptable and should be able to adjust to your husband’s enjoyment. That’s what makes them work best for the husband that don’t want anything!
So let’s get onto the gift ideas!
A dreaded chore completed for him
Favorite home cooked meal or dessert
A date planned doing his favorite hobby
Accessories for his hobby
Gift card to a favorite restaurant
Gift basket made of seemingly insignificant favorites such as favorite snacks etc. (Alone each may seem tacky but put together, would make a nice gift)
Inside joke gift
Subscription of some sort
Tickets to a nearby museum or event that he would enjoy
Personalized gift (Etsy or DIY)
Trip to somewhere he loves
Romantic scavenger hunt
Something useful but liked (new wallet, favorite brand of jeans etc)
A upgrade to a already owned item (new phone, laptop, electric razor etc)
Photo gift
Memory gift that re-lives the entirety of the past year or the entirety of your relationship together
I hope this list of ideas has triggered a gift idea for you to give to your husband this year that he will love! If you enjoy post like this and content on Godly homemaking, then please subscribe via subscription form below. PS- As a subscribed homemaker, you will also have access to this adorable car date printable (shown bleow) and MORE FREE PRINTABLE’S on my “Homemakers Only” page!
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Early Christmas preparation can make for a less stressful holiday season!
Are you prepared for the Christmas season? If December seems to always slip up on you resulting in utter chaos, this post is for you! Preparation, organization, and realization of the true meaning of Christmas are the keys to a enjoyable holiday season. If you haven’t already done these things listed below, in early Christmas preparation then you REALLY need to, ASAP!
Make a recipients list
Set a budget
Begin gift research
keep gift records
Stay in your budget!
That may sound like a lot of Christmas preparation especially this early . So, let’s break it down to better understand exactly how these actions can simplify your holiday season especially if you begin early (AKA now.)
The first way you can begin your Christmas perpetration is by…
1.Making a recipient’s gift list
This is usually a simple task. Sit down with a pen & paper, a phone notebook, or my favorite Christmas app, (link below), and began listing each and every person to whom you will be gifting this year. Yes, I mean EVERYONE! Fido, the mailman, teachers, even your son’s gold fish! ????.
This Christmas preparation helps with budgeting by keeping your hard earned dollars from slipping between the cracks of, “oh I forgot”. This also helps you prepare items ahead of time giving you more meaningful and budget friendly options to choose from.
2. Decide on an overall budget amount,then distribute accordingly.
This is very important part of your Christmas preparation. To be honest, this is best done at the start of the year allowing as much time as possible to put back the desired amount of money for your Christmas budget.
Either way, if you haven’t already then NOW is the time to sit down with your spouse, consider your current income and decide on or confirm a REASONABLE Christmas budget amount. This amount should NEVER cause debt that you cannot afford nor should it be an amount that will cause anxiety & stress . Christmas is about the birth of Christ and there is no reason to celebrate it by spending money you don’t have, causing unstable and unhealthy circumstances that do not honor Him. Most likely, the person you are strapping yourself for would never want you to, on their behalf anyway.
Once you have an overall budget total, divide your budget into individual amounts between each family member and each holiday category. Your individual budget amounts should never add up to more then your total budget.
Example of dividing your total budget would be something like this –
Total budget $500
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Parents $35 ea Total= $70
In-laws $35 ea Total= $70
Nieces & nephew’s $15ea. Total= $60
2Children $75 ea Total= $150
Gift Wrapping Total= $20
Ingredients for Christmas baking for neighbors etc. Total= $30
Gifts for Spouse & yourself to exchange $50 ea Total= $100
—TOTAL— $500
You may ask “What if my gift list exceeds my total Christmas budget?”
If your total amount of divided budget equals more then your total overall budget, then you probably figured your individual budgets first .
This is why it’s important to figure your overall budget , then divide it between the individual budgets accordingly.
If you are having trouble dividing the amounts small enough to stick to your total budget then consider omitting categories that you may be able to skip for this year. Sometimes we bye for more people then we really need to. You don’t have to skip this person or category forever, just until you can prepare better in the future.
Second, consider cutting down a small spending amount from each person. A small amount from each will not affect your spending much but can add up to quite a bit of savings on your part
What if I’m still over budget or my reasonable overall budget is just very small?
* Look for budget cut opportunities
*Shop sales and clearance
*Be honest, If your worried about unfulfilled expectations then just be honest and tell your family you are cutting back permanently or temporarily.
*Do not feel guilty.
*Gift the gift of favors or time
*Work with what you have and try to make the best of it .
*Consider DIY Christmas gifts, They have really came a long way… subscribe for future post on this topic
*Use your imagination and creativeness .
*Tackle the challenge with a good spirit, you might be surprised what you come up with, especially if you start now.
*Lastly , if you wish to have a bigger Christmas budget next year, consider planning for it earlier. January or as soon as Christmas is over, is a great time to set up a Christmas savings plan. At this time of year, Christmas is on your mind and you will know best the areas you would like to adjust in financially for future Christmases.
I like to make notes of Christmas ideas that I didn’t use on the current year for possible gift ideas in the following.
Note- Many banks have Christmas savings accounts that will even pay you interest to save. This would be a great way to begin your Christmas preparation next year .Every penny counts!
3.Research Is a must for early Christmas preparation
Research is vital to a budget friendly, receiver pleasing, stress relieving, gift giving, holiday season and of your Christmas preparation!
I know that was a mouth full lol.. but researching prices (aka price matching) and watching for sales can really help out when buying multiple gifts.
Research isn’t always about the price though.
Research can help that frantic feeling you get as you search for the perfect gift for that one person that is SO hard to buy for.
If you have a person on your list with no gifting ideas whatsoever, then begin your research NOW! Google gift ideas for “dad, grandpa, husband… etc. (is it just me or are men hard to buy for ?????).
There are so many articles on gift ideas online. If you don’t find something the first time, try different Google search titles such as “Christmas gift ideas for men” or if you’re crafty, try “best DIY Christmas gifts 2021”, “DIY gifts for dad”, or “DIY gifts made by kids”. You get the idea.
Also, keep your eyes open for YouTube videos and blog post on gifting (including here!) And don’t forget to listen for any type of hints or clues from or about those “hard to buy” family members. Listening and being observant alone can give you tons of GREAT, needful gift ideas.
4.Keep gift records
The holiday season can consist of a LOT of well, everything really. Lots of shopping , lots of traveling, lots of gatherings, lots of cooking, and a lot to remember . This is exactly why I suggest keeping a Christmas notebook, or app for Christmas record keeping.
What do I keep in my Christmas notebook?
1.Gift recipients and all budgeted categories .
Don’t forget to include extra expenses such as wrapping supplies, Christmas cards, Christmas dinners, goodies, and annual Christmas trips or traditions. These are easy expenses to forget amidst the hustle.
2.Budget limits and budget break downs
3.All gift ideas that you come across during your gifting “research”
4.Any item you purchase & who it’s for
5.All money spent from budget and each budget’s current balance
Keeping these details all together keeps you from buying doubles. It makes sure you don’t forget about a great gift idea you made note of , and most importantly, if done correctly, it can help keep you within your budget.
As the holiday season approaches and you begin your Christmas preparation, keep these records with you at all times. You never know when you may come across a great gift deal. But before you purchase, double check your “notebook” for budget limits, former ideas, & already purchased gifts.
5.Stay in your budget!
In the end, no matter how you decide to gift, be sure to STAY IN YOUR BUDGET as you prepare for this Christmas.
Come January, you will be so happy you did. And boy will be surprised how much stress this alone can illuminate.
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